A takeaway about Buddha's candles
The Buddha said, “Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared."
It’s a beautiful reminder that works for happiness and more.
In my experience, the best leaders light countless candles without even trying, because they spontaneously share & show something else that’s contagious: Their passion to make a positive difference for others.
That passion might be about creativity, or innovation, or health & wellness, or empowering people, or any number of other positive purposes.
And it needn’t be done with loud words or big gestures. Candles don’t need flamethrowers.
For example, have you ever heard Steven Pressfield talk about the creative process?
(If you’re not familiar with Pressfield’s work, his short, brilliant “The War of Art” is a great place to start, and it’s easy to find interviews he’s done.)
He’s ever at ease, serenely soft-spoken. But he’s also undeniably, infectiously passionate about people doing what they’re called to do. His creativity candle is ALWAYS lit with lively conviction. He makes you eager & energized to try his advice, even though he’s often talking about how damned hard it is:)
That’s a sign of a lit-within leader. Look for that!
Even during difficult times, the best leaders look & sound like they’re exactly where they belong, because they’re plugged into their positive purpose. Their passion to make a positive difference is undiminished by roadblocks, problems, or misfortune. It’s the opposite. Their purpose feeds on trouble, and flourishes.
What’s yours? If you’re not sure, it’s easy to explore. Do it with an adventurous spirit. You’ve had lots of life experiences to draw on already, and some things matter more to you. What has life taught you so far that you really care about?
Share & show your care-abouts, not loudly, but out loud. Tell others you’re energized about helping people get better healthcare, or rise out of poverty, or realize their potential, or invest more effectively, or start their own business, or whatever it might move you.
See which values, commitments or causes keep fueling you to learn & do more, especially when it’s difficult. That’s the sign of a purpose you might love. That’s the sign of an inner candle that effortlessly stays lit, like Pressfield’s does.
Showing yours can help others light theirs.
Like the Buddha said about happiness, purpose doesn’t drain like a battery when you use it. The more you share it, the more there is.
And always remember there are others to inspire you along. Collect your favorite candles!
Make your own list of lit-within leaders who appeal to you in how they show & share their passion to make a difference. Look for people who restore your hope & belief, who ignite in you the joy of striving to do your part to make things better.
You might know some of these people personally. Others might be public figures, like Pressfield, or people from history, like Buddha.
They’re everywhere if you look for them. The flame is eternal. Collect candles & light yours too.
That’s the takeaway: Be a lit-within leader.